Love panky ‹‹qualities of an irresistible friend™››

Man is a social being. One’s life cannot be imagined
without people around him or her. We all need people
in our everyday life to talk with, share our joys,
sorrows, views etc.
  I personally feel that friends are the biggest strength of
a person. There is a special bonding we have with each
of our friends. Sometimes, I find no difference between
my friends and family. Yes, my friends are my family,
not by blood relation, but by heart.
Friends come and go and in life, but what is important
is that how long friendship lasts. Sometimes, it may be
a few months, a few years or sometimes forever.
Everybody wants friends to be in their life forever. Let
us find out the “best qualities” the person you call your
“best friend” should Have!
1. Sharing and Caring
Yes, sharing is indeed one of the qualities your best
friends should have. You should be able to share each
and everything with each other. Your friend should be able to lend you little
things which you urgently need. It is therefore rightly
said that a friend in need is a friend indeed
2. Trust and loyalty.
No one ever wants their friends to bitch about them
behind their back. That is just so very disgusting.
Friendship is a very special bond which stands on the
pillars of trust and loyalty. You should be able to share
your deepest secret with your best friend without the
fear of the secret being leaked. If you don’t feel that
your friend is loyal to you, what is the whole point of
spending time or being friends with that person? A true
friendship is a one where you can trust each other and
know that your friend will always be loyal to you.
2. Personal Adviser
Who the hell needs a counselor/adviser when you have
a best friend with you? A best friend should be a one
who guides you to the right path, knows what is good
and what is bad for you.
The right friends and the
right advice from them makes life so much better!
4. Listener
For all those sad and gloomy days when we are feeling
low, a best friend is always ready to listen to our
problems. Of course, your friend would not surely have
all the solutions or answers to your problems or what
to do next. But, they give you a sense of belonging
that you are not alone and they are always there for you.
A good friend is a one in front of whom you can
pour your heart out without any hesitation. And also,
they listen with interest keeping their phones aside, just
concentrating on you at that time.
5. Selfless-  Always ready to help!
Having a friend who is selfless and sees nothing when
it comes to helping you, then I tell that you have the
right friend, buddy! A good friend is the one who is
always ready to help you in the difficult phase of your
life without expecting anything in return. They make
your problems their own and act accordingly in a way
which they feel is the best for you. Selflessness
doesn’t mean that your friends should always sacrifice
things for you. They have their own life and problems
too which maybe you wouldn’t know.
6.  Cheers you up
Nothing can beat spending quality time with your best
friend full of hilarious jokes, giggles and laughter.
Friends add happiness to life. They are always ready to
cheer you up when you are sad by making stupid faces,
telling lame jokes, tickling you and what not! Yes
obviously, they do share your pain, but don’t like it
when you remain sad for too long. They make you
forget all your problems and add colors to your life. My
life is so very unimaginable without my friends!
7. Knows you inside out.
A best friend is the one who knows you like no one
else in the world does. You people can literally talk
through expressions without saying a word. You two
look at something or someone and instantly know what
the other is thinking and then share an evil smile. They
know you so well that you cannot hide anything from
them. They will notice even the slightest change in
your expressions and will instantly know that something
is wrong with you.
8. Forgiving.
It is human nature to have difference in opinion and
views sometimes resulting in disputes. Friends also
fight, sometimes, a lot. I personally have indulged is so
many fights with my friends, but the bond never broke
down. Touch wood! A good friend is a one who forgives
his/her friends without making any impact of the
dispute on the friendship. You and your friend should
have such a bond that no dispute can make you two
grow apart. Rather, after each fight or
misunderstanding, your bond should grow even
stronger.
9. Straightforward.
I totally love straightforward people. Who would want
diplomatic friends? Who would not want an honest
opinion from their friends? No one! Friends are the one
whom we can trust and depend on easily.
Then lastly,
10. Not Judgmental at alI

To a TRUE FRIEND, i write.