That's all your mother was trying to tell you.

    A Principles Woman 2

The world has convinced us women that we are not fully functioning, fulfillled individual without a man. What can you say when popular artists make desperation sound so good? Songs declare "there is no me without you" or " if love ends then i promise you that i shall never breathe again.
Actually, it's the other way around. The wrong relationship can squeeze the very life out of you. That's why it's so important to allow God to choose the man that He wants to Find you. Listen! "Find you", he finds you. Yes, my bible tells me, "When a man finds a wife, he finds a good thing" (Prov.18:22). This always was, and always will be, the perfect order of a relationship because it is spiritual law.
So where did God come up with the ideal that the man finds the woman? Believe it or not,  He arranged this in order to give the woman POWER. Let's Face it- men never appreciate anything they don't have to work for to get. The Spirit of conquest is in the heart of every man.
Get the picture! Men reverence that which is hard- earned. God wanted women to be appreciated in the same way. So relax - take a seat behind the end zone and let him come and get you.
That's all your mother was trying to tell you when she told you not to call boys.
They will actually cooperate with you for a time as long as it's convenient for them. But eventually they meet a greater challenge that intrigues them, and they come up with some smooth way to slither out of the picture.
A principles woman will be too busy minding her own business! You see, men are not ultimately inclined to make commitment.  They generally only COMMIT in order to ACQUIRE.  Therefore your life should be full of activity and interests apart from him. He should be compelled to decide that the only way he will be able to capture your attention and time consistently is to MARRY you.
 The more available you make yourself, the further away your wedding day will be -- end of story.

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Lesson from : The Secrets of an Irresistible Woman.
By: Michelle Mckinney Hammond
Muse: Mrs Ogechi Victoria Akanwa
                ( Classique by Victoria)